BY: SEM. ROBERT BIGABWARUGABA
AS we celebrate Valentine’s Day, we often associate it with romantic love, chocolates, and flowers. However, the true meaning of Valentine’s Day is rooted in the Latin word “valentia,” which means “strength.”
In this article, we will explore how Valentine’s Day can be a day to strengthen the week, the depressed, and those who feel neglected.
Valentine’s Day, holiday (February 14) when lovers express their affection with greetings and gifts. Given their similarities, it has been suggested that the holiday has origins in the Roman festival of Lupercalia, held in mid-February. The festival, which celebrated the coming of spring, included fertility rites and the pairing off of women with men by lottery.
At the end of the 5th century, Pope Gelasius I forbid the celebration of Lupercalia and is sometimes attributed with replacing it with St. Valentine’s Day, but the true origin of the holiday is vague at best.According to Socrates, “The unexamined life is not worth living.”
As we reflect on our relationships and social lives, we must acknowledge the pain and trauma caused by neglecting others. Samuel Mbiti, an African philosopher, emphasizes the importance of community and relationships in African culture. He states, “I am because we are, and since we are, therefore I am.” This philosophy highlights the interconnectedness of human beings and the need to prioritize relationships and community.
The Bible also emphasizes the importance of love and relationships. In 1 Corinthians 13:13, it states, “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” This verse reminds us that love is the greatest virtue, and it is essential to prioritize love and relationships in our lives.
Valentine’s Day should not be solely focused on romantic love; rather, it should be a day to express love and appreciation for all relationships, including friendships and family. As the Bible states, “Love each other as I have loved you” (John 15:12). This verse encourages us to love others selflessly and unconditionally.
In a world where communities are losing hope and living in hopelessness, Valentine’s Day can be a day to reignite hope and strength. As Pope Francis states, “Hope is the virtue that inspires us to look to the future with optimism and confidence.”
This year’s Jubilee of Hope reminds us that hope is rooted in the power of the Holy Spirit.Through the Gift of the Holy Spirit of Fortitude, we can find supernatural courage in times of weakness.
As 2Corinthians 12:9 states, “My power is made perfect in weakness.” This verse reminds us that God’s strength is made perfect in our weakness, and we can trust in.
The Author, Robert Bigabwarugaba is a Seminerian from St Paul’s National Seminary – Kinyamasika robertbigabwarugaba@gmail.com
